Rest within reach: new rules for work
I set up my out-of-office responses and closed my laptop. I hid my work apps on a distant third screen on my phone, turned off all...
Watch for Fallen Rocks: How working with fear strengthens your leadership practice
The first time I saw it I was on an elementary school field trip. Squeezed in a dark green sticky L-shaped seat next to a kid I didn’t...
One muddy step closer: The trail as teacher
On trusting the process.
Reunion in the Waiting Room (A Love Story)
It’s the year 2000. We’ve all survived the Y2K freak-out. The TV still works just like it did before and my 20-year old body is laying on...
I'M SO BORED. A grown-up's guide to the gift of grounding.
My children are building forts. It’s Friday morning, 9:48 am, spring break for my children whose home has has doubled as their school for...
The Day the Dogwoods Didn't Bloom
There are three flowering dogwood trees in our backyard here in Virginia. On the morning my father died five years ago, I walked outdoors...
Leading while human: A seven-part approach to failing forward
There’s a lot of hype about failing fast and how companies and people who do are inevitably better at innovation. I’d like to offer...
Cake: An update on the burnout post
The thing about giving advice is that you can reliably expect the universe to provide you an opportunity to practice what you preach...
"Scratch!": What my son taught me about burnout
Somewhere between his age and mine, I developed a growing hesitancy to asking for what I need. It took finding myself in articles about burn
Skillful Neglect: A different kind of resolution
On a recent weekend run with my two dogs, the hound stopped suddenly to sniff around a telephone poll and the leash, which was wrapped...
How we rise: Lessons from failed biscuits
Every member of my immediate family has different dietary needs. For many reasons, and for several years now, we tend to do our own thing...
Greeting Ourselves
Just about every other Thursday, between 4pm and 5pm, I can expect a phone call from one of my most trusted friends, calling from her...
Holding Room
Someone I love very much will be having surgery in a couple of weeks. She has designated me as her person – the one who will drive her to...
The Drop-In
The first thing most people notice when they see our backyard is the miniature skateboard park. We have an area near our back fence with...
The Love that Grows from Darkness: a reminder on World Mental Health Day
"Leaving the darkness starts with curiosity about why you feel the way you do. It starts with refusal to believe that you are permanently...
Tea Time: What I learned from a dinner party mistake
At some point in my early married life, around the time we upgraded our couch from the one loaned to us from my parents’ basement, my...
Why Morpheus keeps moving: lessons from an old horse
“I have never ridden a horse” was a go-to for me in two truths and a lie, because at my age and in my part of Virginia, it always worked...
When the ground shifts: lessons from my treadmill
During the coronavirus pandemic, I have limited my daily physical exercise to activities I can do outside or in my basement. Most...
Shorelines: A reflection on transitions
Earlier this summer, on one of the nights our family had eaten dinner outside, our children lit sprinklers and ran around in circles,...



















